December 2018 | Olive and Tate

Last Minute Amazon Gifts For Everyone On Your List

Last Minute Amazon Gifts For Everyone On Your List

The countdown is on, my friends! With less than 10 days til Christmas those gifts need to be under your tree but if you're behind, don't stress. I've hit Amazon to find the best gifts for everyone on your list - and they'll all ship Prime, so whether you've been surprised by an office gift exchange or haven't found the time to shop, you'll be covered and ready to roll by the big day. 

Last Minute Amazon Gifts For Everyone On Your List



For Him:

Perfect for propping up phones or tablets at your desk, bedside or in the kitchen while you cook, this tech stand is under ten bucks! 

Justin won this in our family gift exchange and it's super cool - a soft cooler bag that can be worn over the shoulder or as a backpack, it's perfect for the beach.

This tailgate chair has a built in, wood grain table with in laid cup holder and a side cooler. I mean.....that's a gifting slam dunk if you ask me.

For your bearded guy, comes complete with all he needs to keep that hair growth in check. 

Tailgate snacks anyone? This table top deep fryer will get the job done. 

This looks like something my husband would waste endless time playing so I think your husband (or boss or teen son or handyman) would like it, too. 

I actually ordered this for our kitchen because we have very little usable countertop space - perfect for a guy in an apartment or any man who love his knives, I love this unique in-drawer storage option. 

This little baby can be charged via USB so it's perfect to stash in the glove box or in a stocking. 

Because I can't be the only person who thinks Apple makes crappy charging cords in order to stay in business! 

Classic, utilitarian, masculine and comfortable. 

Mostly, I can't think of anyone who wouldn't want or need this but my husband works in a cube and has to fight for outlet space, so this would be the perfect stocking stuffer for him. 

Justin ordered himself this pair of tech tip gloves for our upcoming mountain trip so I'm guessing they'll be a hit across the husband board. 

Lock and load multiple devices and charging cords in one central location - perfect for a husband like mine who has a work phone, personal phone and tablet.

We cut cable so we're full on streaming - do it with Alexa voice control via a Fire Stick. 

I mostly just love the term "boxerjock" but this pair of Under Armor underwear is supposed to be the best of both worlds! 

Perfect for yard work, hunting or drowning out a colicky baby.


Last Minute Amazon Gifts For Everyone On Your List

For Her:
1. Lip Rescue
I just ordered this for myself and am loving it - I have the clear and it comes out of the tube in a thick consistency but wears easily without causing my lips to peel. I have super dry lips so I'm always on the hunt for winter lip products and this one is on the top of my list.

2. Acrylic Tray
A simple, easy piece that will blend with any decor, this is the perfect present for the hard to gift girl

3. Ring Doorbell
I am dying for a ring doorbell, mostly so I can track my online purchases as they're delivered, but also, you know, for security!

4. JoJo
Any decor loving lady will be all over Joanna Gaine's latest coffee table book

5. Studs
Perfect for every day wear and available in a ton of colors, I own a set of these and love how comfortably they wear.

6. Air Fryer
My beloved air fryer takes frozen dino nuggets and turns them into cooked dino wonders in minutes.

7. Dream Leggings
An unreal dupe for Lululemon leggings, I have this pair in navy and black!

8. Hand Cream
A perfect set to be broken down and used as stocking stuffers, teacher gifts or thank you's for important helpers.

9. Lidded Basket
The best in storage that can also double as a side table or end table if needed!

10. Tortoise Hoops
Classic, easy and under $10! Another gift that can really go anywhere - from a stocking to a teacher gift to a girl's gift exchange.

11. Make Up Brush Cleansing Mat
Another item I would love to find in my stocking, this make up brush cleaning mat is perfect for the beauty lover in your life (or teen girl/babysitter/helper).

12. Acrylic Make Up Storage
This is my personal make up storage system and I love the quality for the price point!

13. Throw
This particular blanket comes in a million colors, perfect for gifting your mother in law, girlfriends or yourself!

14. Pop Socket Phone Mount
I'm obsessed with this car phone mount - it uses any pop socket to mount into the base.

15. Echo Dot
So, I didn't know how much I would love the dot and it's video screen until my parents got one. It's amazing and has the capacity to make video calls from Dot to Dot. It's for sure on my wish list!

16. Tile 
Because my daughter loves to hide my car keys, we're going to need to snag a tile ASAP. You attach one piece to the thing you always need to track and when it's lost, you'll always be able to find it.

Happy gifting! 

5 Ways to Make The Holidays Less About Stuff (with your kids!)


5 Ways to Make The Holidays Less About Stuff (with your kids!)
This post is sponsored by Primrose Schools; however, all thoughts and opinions are my own

I'm so excited to finally sit down and write this post! If you follow me on Instagram, you know that it's become my mission to ensure that our holiday season is a mix of tradition, friends, family and giving back for my children. Blame it on my own mother who did the same, the fact that my babes have more than they need or the fact that ultimately, I'm trying to raise good humans, but whatever the driving force may be, making the holidays into something more than a few weeks of stuff has become part of our little family's tradition - and I love it. 

This year, Gray is 4 so he and I are really able to chat about the ways we can help others but finding age appropriate ways to teach him why he is so fortunate has been a bit of a challenge. Thankfully, I was introduced to Primrose Schools during our process to determine if my sweet Summer boy should pop into a Transitional Kinder program next year or head on to the real deal. Primrose is working hard to implement strategies in their classrooms that teach kiddos as young as Gray the impact of giving back. Primrose and I put our heads together and came up with this list: 

5 Ways to Teach Your Preschooler To Give Back This Holiday Season

1. Food First  
If you're unfamiliar with Primrose Schools, they actually have 9 locations here in the Charlotte area and believe who children become is as important as what they know (which I might just adopt as my own motherhood motto!). Each November, Primrose schools across the country host the Caring and Giving Food Drive in order to teach and encourage responsibility, community involvement and giving without expectation.

5 Ways to Make The Holidays Less About Stuff (with your kids!)
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And get this: they ask their students to "earn" their monetary donations used to purchase food items through doing chores at home. The older kiddos bring in their hard earned money, plan a budget and actually go to the grocery store to see the value of their work translated into actual food items for those in need. Teachers (and often students, too) then personally deliver the donations to local shelters and food banks to directly impact the most needy.



I honestly love this idea (and am obviously planning to claim it as our newest family tradition) because the focus is not on gifting toys and the process is not Gray watching me purchase something in a store. Instead, he is learning the value of his work and that impact his work can have on others. Many of you know we already use a "responsibility chart" at home where Gray earns four quarter weekly for doing his assigned tasks around our home - we now plan to use the Primrose strategy and are choosing a week where his dollar will actually go to buying food items for those in need. He and I will grocery shop and purchase a meal to be donated and he will be responsible for handing over his coins when the time comes to pay. We've been talking about for a few days now and he's very excited for our shopping day.


2. Read About It
I asked my friends at Primrose if they could recommend a few books geared to preschoolers that focus on giving back and they absolutely delivered. I put together a little graphic so that everyone can save for future use - most of these books are perfect for year-round and not just holiday themed, so you'll get traction out of them! 

7 books that teach preschoolers about giving

How to be thankful during Thanksgiving and all year long
A story about a llama who learns how to give to others
A classic and favorite in our house that teaches compassion and kindness
Teaches how to notice other people's kind actions and to show gratitude 
The Big Red Dog practices selflessness as he goes out of his to do good deeds for others
Introduces toddlers to the concepts of taking turns, sharing and playing with others

For reference, both Sharing Time and How Kind! are geared for ages 2-3 while the rest are perfect for kid's ages 4-5. 

One of the questions I am asked most often is to talk about how and why we use our Santa Sacks! So here's the deal, my children are just incredibly blessed and have a playroom full of toys - most of which they don't play with. We do ask that our families skip the gifting of toys and instead gift experiences, but of course, the stuff piles up (mostly thanks to my Dollar Aisle habit). With that said, I searched for a way to teach our children the value of their things and finally found a Santa Sack that says "Dear Santa, I've outgrown these toys, please share them with other good girls and boys". I made sure to steer clear of sacks that referenced broken or old toys, because I didn't want my son to consider it a throw away process, but a giving one.


Last year, when Gray was 3, we presented the sack on Christmas Eve Day at told him that all children leave toys for Santa to take back to his workshop and share with other little boys and girls. He was thrilled and filled that bag right up. Now that he's a bit older, we've already started talking to him about how some children don't have as many toys as he does and how every Christmas we will choose toys to send to other boys and girls who would love to play with him. He has asked if he can clear out his sister's things but once we cleared that up (she has her own sack to fill!), he was completely on board. 

Our tradition is to fill and leave our Santa Sacks on the fireplace with Santa's cookies on Christmas Eve and Santa picks them up when he visits our home. I take the toys and hide them in our shed until I can sneak off to donate the toys - the sack is left empty on the fireplace with a note from Santa, thanking Gray for having such a giving heart. 

I am often asked if I worry about Gray donating certain toys or how I let him choose and quite honestly, he can donate what he chooses and it's even more special to me if he chooses a toy he's played with quite often because he is choosing to gift something important to him to another child. As long as he is donating his own stuff (and not baby sisters), he has free reign. 

4. List It Carefully 
This may be a bit controversial, but we don't encourage our children to make a list for Santa. We tell them they may ask Santa for 3 things when we visit him in person and we don't sit down to list/write it out. For us, that process makes the focus on what they are getting and not on what they are giving. We don't pull out catalogues or magazine and circle our wish list items and we ensure to remind them that Santa is working hard to surprise them and all of the other children with thoughtful gifts. There really isn't a need for a long wish list, so we skip it!  

5. Make It
Each year, Gray and I work together to make a hand crafted gift for his Teachers. Last year we made stove pot simmering goodness and this year we'll be tapping into his love for Great British Bake Off and whipping up Cinnamon Rolls. As parents, we participate in the class gift to show our appreciation, but nothing compares to Gray's pride as he gives his teachers the gifts he made them. I make sure that we talk about how important it is to give our time to a handmade gift and explain that we are making our gifts with love. He "signs" his name to each gift and truthfully, I love the quality time we get to spend together on our gift making days. 

I love fostering their little hearts in this way and slowly integrating more traditions that focus on the time we spend together and the needs of others for the holiday season - if you have an amazing tradition that you do with your kids to shift the focus away from the stuff, tell me in the comments! 

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)

Holiday Party Season is upon us, my friends! From preschool to the office and everything in between, I set out to brave the horrible fitting room lighting with the hopes of finding us the perfect outfit for each and every occasion. I managed to find 5 gorgeous outfits all at amazing price points!
Wanna see??

Oh, and because I know ya'll love the mirror selfies, I included them for your viewing pleasure!
As a reminder, I'm 5'9", busty and wear a size 29 in jeans.

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The Office Party

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)
pants, wearing size 8 | tee, wearing a medium | shoes, similar 


Appropriate, tailored, classy and festive, I love the bold red pants in this outfit. I prefer the paper bag waist paired with a fitted layer and this tee is one that I wear year round. If the red pant is too strong for your liking, this pair is also available in black. My shoes are from a few years ago but I've found amazing options, like this pair in the same plaid! 

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)

The "Festive Attire" Gathering

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)
Jumpsuit, wearing a 10 | necklace | heels 



The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)

Truly, I don't love a vague dress code - I'm a girl who loves specifics, like Black Tie or Pajama Party, so when I see "Festive Attire" I feel a little lost. But attire crisis averted this season thanks to an amazing jumpsuit that covers your arms, isn't too busty (there's a hook and eye closure at to keep it closed!) and feels really chic thanks to the cropped ankle. You can pair this baby with anything - strappy heels, pumps, flats, your fave statement necklace or earring and you're out the door! This is probably my new favorite piece in my wardrobe, and it's my first jumpsuit!

The Preschool Holiday Concert

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)
Sweater, wearing a medium | jeans, wearing a 28 | shoe, similar 


Easy, comfortable and able to endure pulling a four year old out of a sugar cookie filled classroom, this outfit will be on repeat around here. The sweater is cropped with a bit of a boxy fit and is super soft, especially considering the price point! The jeans are an investment pair so I'm linking a pair at a friendlier price point that I also own and love here.

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)

The Girl's Night Out

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)
Sequin Top, wearing an 8 | Jeans, wearing a 28 | shoes, similar 


If you can't wear a sequin tee at the holidays, when else can you wear it?! I love this tee paired with jeans and a fun heel for girl's night (and then again for New Years Eve!). And yes, even we busty girls can wear those sequins!

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)

The Nutcracker

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)
skirt, wearing a 6 thanks to the elastic waist | sweater, wearing a medium | shoes 


This outfit is so feminine and easy thanks the elastic waist skirt that has a tiny bit of sparkle and the cream sweater with pearls. This would be my ideal outfit for the Nutcracker or special holiday brunch with my Mom.

The Ultimate Holiday Party Outfit Guide (For Moms!)